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The most loving thing you can say to your partner is:

 Teach me how to love you, and I will teach you how to love me. 

Make It Easy for Your Partner to Love You

While there’s no question that modern intimate relationships require work and negotiation to be successful, the last thing we want to do is make it hard for our partners to love us. In fact, we want to make it as easy as possible. The following little exercise can help.

Ask your partner: What can I do to make you feel loved? 

Write down your partner’s response (ex.: Surprise me now and then with flowers.) 

Assuming that your partner responds with something you can do, say: This will make it easier for me to do what will make you feel loved. (ex.: Tell me you are pleased with the flowers when I bring them.) 

And tell your partner: I feel loved when you ... (ex.: ... greet me when I come home.) I will make it easier for you to do this by ... (ex.: ... showing appreciation when you do it and doing the same for you). Is there something else I can do to make it easier for you? 

And then write your partner’s response.

Communicating with your partner as in the above exercises will go a long way toward establishing a safe and satisfying intimate relationship. Love looks a little different with each couple. How to do it well is a lesson you must teach other.

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The article is shorten and represented by Shais Anees 19.3.14

Source: www.psychologytoday.com/blog/anger-in-the-age-entitlement/201403/the-most-loving-thing-you-can-say-your-partner